"The Importance of God In Every Relationship"

     What type of relationships are you in? Are you a parent dealing with children? Are you a grown child caring for an adult who may be infirm? What gets you through? Is it hope? Is it faith?
      Hope that you will raise your child/children right. Raising a child is not easy. Especially in these chaotic days. It seems that telling right from wrong has become a blurry and abstract subject.
       We're in a "whatever makes it easier" society. If your child would rather sit in front of a TV screen instead of doing chores or homework it's OK as long as they're quiet. Buy your kids the latest video game just so they won't throw a temper tantrum. We're too busy to check homework and moniter entertainment choices. Let alone ask how our children are doing or to tell them we love them.
     Jesus wasn't too busy for children. He said "Let the children come unto me." Those of us who have a childlike innocence inherit the kingdom. To be in awe of God. Childlike NOT childish.
     Jesus had a close relationship with His Father in Heaven. Jesus did as he saw his father doing in heaven. The Our Father Prayer is a testament to that. "Thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven."
Jesus followed The Father's will even unto death.
     The followers of Jesus were disapointed in the fact that thier leader had been killed. Nonetheless God's plans were not put to death. The death and burial of Jesus lead to his ressurection. The mission of Jesus was continued and continues to this day.
      So maybe your married. And you have an amazing spouse. Your love for each other runs deep. You can't face the idea that one day you will lose your beloved. What if it were to happen? Will you
yell and scream at God and ask why?
     If God has a strong place in your relationship and if he is the glue that holds everything together then if and or when your beloved is wisked away into heaven then knowing that God is by your side his strength can see you through.
      If you put God in the drivers seat and rely on him all the days of your life he can become your spiritual spouse.
    Look I know that these words may sound silly and absurd that's okay. Faith in an invisible God may seem rediculous. But what have you got to loose by at least reach out to the Great Spirit?
    Life is not without pain and loss. It's a gaurantee. Another promise is that there is a higher power out there. Someone created you. Every life has a purpose. That may be hard to swallow but I believe it to be true.
    I tried to deny this as being fact but God is truly everywhere. Look hard ennough (even if you have to squint) and you will find the truth and the truth will set you free.
    Men and women fail each other. But God never does.
       The more importance you place on God in your life the more evident his assistance will be even if the people that reside in flesh and blood let us down, get sick, or even die.
    They say that there will always be death and taxes but there will also always be the promise of our father in heaven and the fact that the gates of heaven are open 24/7/365 That the lifeline to God's ears to hear us and our prayers never lose reception or ever become out of range.
    What relationship do you have with the One creating us in  his image?

"Hands To Yourself"

In California there has been a law passed against being forced to undergo "laying on of hands" or what some call exorcisms.
    One of the top reasons this was deemed necessary is that parents of teenagers were trying to "pray the gay away."
I know that St. Paul went Old Testament on everyone when he singled out homosexuality.
Jesus on the other hand spoke of a broader sense of right and wrong when it came to sexual immorality.
   "If anyone so much as looks at an other person in lust it's as if you have committed adultery with them in your heart."
     I think the key words here are "in your heart."
       If your heart is where your treasure is supposed to be then what condition is your heart in if it's full of lust?
     Gay or straight lust is lust. And hate is hate.
Love your neighbor as you love yourself. How much do you love yourself if you hate anyone else, for any reason? Not so much I tend to think.
    How will they know we are children of God? By our love.
Not by judging each other.
      I would even say that if you are part of the LGBT community then try not to hate those who hate you. Especially when it's out in the open or in your very own home.
      I don't know what other religious text say on the subject but I say,
'Does it matter?'
        In a sense I guess it does. But it doesn't have to.
           If you are a parent who is concerned about a child who may be gay and your beliefs say that homosexuality is a sin just let it be.
         Don't be so concerned with what gender your child is attracted to or even if your child is questioning what gender they are inside. Be concerned with the safety of your child.
     Teach your child about safe sex.
Teach your kids to respect themselves in order to be in a safe and healthy relationship.
    Don't you want your child to have happy memories of not only childhood but any associations they come to have with you and God? No matter what church, mosque, or temple you go to. Perhaps you don't attend religious services. Don't you want your house to be a home and not just a shelter.
     After all hate and lack of acceptance do not make a happy home.
God created us ALL in his image. God is love. God is everywhere.
   God is love.
          Let us reflect God by being loving.